Elizabeth Edwards told
Larry King on Wednesday night that she was willing, at one point, to be the step-mother of
John Edwards and
Rielle Hunter's child. Elizabeth, who refrained from mentioning the name of her estranged husband's ex-mistress, said that while she's never spoken with Rielle, she has met Rielle and John's little girl,
Quinn. "When John and I were together, and he was wanting to be a father -- which I admired, that he should; when he found out that in fact this was his child and he wanted to be a father, and if that were the case and we were together, I would be this child's step mother," Elizabeth told Larry. "We went down to Charlotte and a third party picked up Quinn and brought her to where we were, and I let John spend some time alone with her," she continued. "It was before Christmas; we bought Christmas presents and dresses and little things…" "It was not awkward in the least," Elizabeth said. "She didn't know who I was -- that was something she was going to learn over time… but, I love children, and sitting there playing with toys with her, she seemed like a really nice child. And I looked forward to having a relationship with her at that time… Now, there's no reason really for me to." She also denied Rielle's claims that her marriage with John was "toxic" long before Rielle entered the equation. "If that were true, why would John and I have worked so hard, under such difficult and public circumstances to make the relationship work? I really think we both worked hard in the end to make it work." "I suppose there are a lot of women in her position who like to justify their behavior – rationalize it – by thinking that this relationship in which they're thrusting themselves wasn't valuable to begin with. It was clearly valuable to both of us and something that we tried very hard to save." Elizabeth, who said she's feeling great while receiving chemotherapy for her ongoing battle with cancer, added that she and John are making their separation work: “We’ve got an amicable way of dealing with the kids and dealing with one another that is really quite satisfactory.” As for how she dealt with the pain of learning about John's affair, Elizabeth said she initially found it hard not to blame herself, in part. "It's really hard not to attach it to yourself; not to say, ‘What did I do wrong?'… I think it's important for me to understand that I didn't do anything wrong; not just important for me, but important also for my children to understand." "I think it's probably been hard for [John], too, to see himself in this new light as not the person on whom I can lean," she said, adding of her estranged husband's behavior: "It disappointed a lot of people. I think that probably includes himself."
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